I have come to a preliminary conclusion. Partying hard is becoming a lost art. I say "is becoming" because now and then it still happens, but unless we step up to save this dying breed of party, it's going to become a sadly extinct species. I'm not referring to the species Parteus Orgeus that fuels the fun with varying conscious-altering techniques, which leaves one enjoying the substance instead of the party. I'm not worried about the survival of that one. I'm referring to one Parteus Rollickus Frolickus. Terming this kind of partying as art is appropriate because it requires some finessing and skill.
First, you need a place. A good habitat for a Parteus Rollickus Frolickus is a farm, complete with stars, fields, and warm homey farmhouse. This is not a necessity, as the species can survive in more urban sites like studio apartments and community parks, but a farm provides a wide range of possibilities for the active and ever busy Rollickus Frolickus.
Second, you need people. I was going to say friends, but that's not entirely necessary either. These can't be just any sort of people. At least some need to be the sort who would find themselves on the roster for a Polar Bear Plunge, read old books, tell stories effortlessly, milk cows, or sing at the top of their lungs with little encouragement. You can have a few boors there, just so long as they're at a place in their life where they're beginning to realize life has some zest to be seized, if only you'll seize it. Multi-generational parties can definitely assist with the fourth element, which you will arrive at shortly.
Third, you need food. This is a general party rule, and this species is no exception. Not too many specific guidelines exist for this category except that it's helpful if the food is homemade, not cookies that come in plastic-wrapped trays from the store or guac from the store. Note: While alcohol may be included in this list, it is never present in excess.
Fourth, you need something to do. Activity will primarily be shaped by the first and second party elements. Some Rollicki Frolicki thrive on events like birthdays and Christmas, while others come together on behalf of good company. This something to do might involve sports; singing soulfully around a piano or guitar; dancing in lines, around fires or concentric, revolving circles; or regaling stories of past generations or last week's blind date.
The life purpose of a Parteus Rollickus Frolickus is bringing people together to celebrate life. It can be more specific than that, like celebrating the independence of a nation or the coming of spring, but sometimes you just need to get together and enjoy good company. If you have a mixed batch of friends, like most humans on earth, you probably have some friends who are prime candidates for taking care of an R.F. and some who are not. Do your unendowed friends a favor and introduce them to the species.
General notes: Activities should not revolve around technology. I know iPads are cool, and you may still be addicted to WOW, but try to keep the conversations and activities centered on real life, physical things, or at least honorable ideals like courage and fidelity. Breathing normally should be kept to a minimum. This can be achieved several ways. You can hold your breath in anticipation of the conclusion of Uncle Jack's harrowing tale of escaping Mrs. Hatch's rabid ferret. You can laugh so hard at your friend Will's rendition of Cash's "Ring of Fire". You can leap for your life playing hay bale tag under the stars until you're heaving with hay fever and exhaustion.
The inspiration for this post was provided by an RF I had the pleasure of attending Saturday night. There were cousins singing and dancing, bonfires blazing, digeridos doing whatever they do, good food, and great conversation. It was a joint birthday celebration of several family members, and was well attended by family, friends, and two grateful American girls who got to tag along.
Contentedly yours,
LMS, who is dedicated to the art of saving the Parteus Rollickus Frolickus
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